Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution. It is a process to help couples who have decided to divorce or separate to discuss matters and assist them to make decisions about their and their families’ futures. It can be used to make the best arrangements for you in relation to how the children are cared for or how finances will be organised. The process is managed by the mediator but you decide what matters to discuss and set the agenda.
How does Mediation work?
Mediation is a voluntary process with a mediator who gives impartial guidance to help you identify what matters to each of you. Through the meetings with the mediator you make your own choices about the best way forward for you and your family. There will be an initial intake assessment to help you decide whether mediation is right for you.
You will probably have 4 – 6 meetings with the mediator to help you reach agreement. You can take part in mediation at any time, if you are considering separating, if you have just separated, during divorce proceedings and even after court proceedings have been started. You can consult your own solicitor at any time to take advice on what is best for you.
When you are both content with the decisions you have reached your proposal is then approved by your solicitor to complete any necessary legal formalities.